It’s not uncommon to find yourself back on the dating scene – a strange place where you wonder why younger women are attracted to older men or why she never called you back after insisting all night that she would.  With the unfortunate fact that divorce rates are at an all-time high, you have one of two choices to make.  Number one – you can remain single and depressed, or two, you can get back out there and find that second chance at your happy ever after.

If you are asking yourself, “How can I realistically date younger women ten, fifteen or even 25 years younger?” then I guarantee the answer is going to surprise you.  Regardless of your age, there is a large percentage of younger women who are genuinely attracted to (and want to exclusively date) older men – usually much older than they are.

Now I realize that this might come as a bit of a shock.  I’m sure there are skeptics among you who’re whispering — ‘they’re dogs and fatties’; ‘gold diggers’; or ‘crazy chicks’ and admittedly you’re going to get some of that, but no more than you would in any circle of women regardless of their age.

However, as unbelievable as it sounds, there really is a market share of hot younger women who prefer to date older men.

Why Younger Women Date Older Men 

For some reason, we find it hard to believe that young, attractive women would be attracted to or want to seek out older, experienced men, yet this happens every day.  Just as men are fighting to find those beautiful young belles.  Guys rarely realize that what turns a man on sexually — looks, a great body, and a happy optimistic personality for starters — are not as important to women.

Sure, younger women care about these things too, but they tend to be drawn to the quality of a man’s character, his social dominance and the subtle aspects of his personality much more than his physical appearance.  That’s why it is so common to see a gorgeous, young, 6′ tall beauty with an older guy who’s short, fat and bald.  He genuinely has an appeal to her mind’s eye.

I knew he was older, I just didn’t think that he was that much older. He looks younger than he is and is in very good shape. But I knew he was probably 10 years older than I was and that was a little bit of the attraction, because I thought that he would be older and more settled with none of the bullshit that you have in your 20s.

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To most of us, these situations defy the laws of “reason” so we immediately label the woman as a gold digger or someone with ‘daddy-issues’ when this may be the furthest thing from the truth.  I have even met these younger women and have spoken with them candidly and all say the same thing, the older man knows how to satisfy her in all aspects of her life.

If you are keen to date younger woman, then I have some quick tips you can use to make sure you are meeting the right opportunities.  Just as with any dating scene, there are a few bad apples, some women do pray on the financial privileges of dating an older man.  Follow these tips to weed out the genuine offers.

Why Younger Women Want You:

The most alluring qualities of an older man are that they offer woman stability, maturity, and a sense of having life figured out.  If you try to act artificially “young” by changing your clothing style, your haircut, your taste in music, or other things that give the appearance that you are trying to turn back the hands of time this is going to backfire and repel younger women like leprosy.

Instead, you should embrace your age and make it your greatest strength.  Think Don Draper, Dos Equis’ – The World’s Most Interesting Man – or Sean Penn.  Every one of these guys can melt women of any age because they are confident (and let’s face it, none of them is particularly “pretty”).  So what is it that is working for these older guys?

When an older guy meets a younger woman, he begins to act weird. He does subtle (and not-so-subtle) things that give a younger woman the creeps — like talking too much or too little, staring, stammering, chasing, and generally acting dorky instead of wise and cool. The reason for this is simple: younger women often make guys feel nervous and “unworthy.” So remember that younger women are just women. They’re not a different species, and everything else you’ve learned still applies. Be cool, confident and in control. Relax. Above all, don’t act like a creep — just get ready for the ride of your life.

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They all radiate a sense of masculinity that subliminally says, “I’ve got the world figured out and now, I’m at the feast of life.  You can come along for the ride if you like.”  Once you master this cool confidence, you are going to realize this is crazy powerful mojo.

Seriously, what 28-year-old guy can compete with that?  Sure, they might look better than you do, but you and I both know if you learn to master the art of embracing your power as an older man, you are going to have a throng of hot young women begging to be a part of your adventure.

People smile when they’re comfortable and having a good time. People smile when they’re happy and having fun. That’s the guy with whom women want to associate. The brooding, serious-looking guy doesn’t look approachable. See that guy who’s always showing off his pearly whites? Notice how he always seems to be in a good mood? That’s the guy women want to be around.

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Why Younger Women Create Intense Attraction

If you’re going to date a woman half your age, you had better be ready for some serious bedroom Olympics.  Many older guys find it hard to keep up with the sex drive of younger women who is insatiable at the best of times.  After 20, men’s testosterone levels (and consequently their sex drive) begin to fall off by about 1% per year.

This hardly seems noticeable when your girl is roughly the same age as you, but when you go from being married to a woman whose 45 then suddenly start dating a woman who is 25 you are going to realize if you want to swim with the young fish you better up your game and fast.  Now you know younger women are attracted to older men, let’s find out how to keep the passion alive and kicking.

One of the easiest ways to counter the effects of aging is to increase your Testosterone.  This is what is responsible for your masculine traits, including muscle tone, mood, libido, erections, and sexual performance, and many other aspects of your daily life that make you who you are.  These are likely your areas of concern.

Below are three simple methods you can use to build her attraction:

Increase HDL Cholesterol

As we get older, we become obsessed with avoiding cholesterol after years of marketed advice by doctors that high cholesterol levels cause heart disease.  Foods such as eggs, coconut oil, red meat, and cheese are high in HDL cholesterol, which is the good cholesterol.  Unfortunately, not all cholesterol is created equal, so this is not a free pass to the all you can eat buffet.

HDL cholesterol is the well-behaved “good cholesterol.” This friendly scavenger cruises the bloodstream. As it does, it removes harmful bad cholesterol from where it doesn’t belong. High HDL levels reduce the risk for heart disease — but low levels increase the risk.

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Why it works:  Keeping a lean, trim figure will make you feel confident and deserving of the babe on your arm.  She does not care about a few pounds, but she will approve of your new outlook on life.

Increase Zinc

If you are looking for a natural way to increase testosterone, you are in the right place!  Zinc is another critical ingredient in the production of Testosterone.  Researchers found that Zinc stored in our cells depletes as we age.  Adding a Zinc supplement to your daily routine is a simple way to build up your reservoirs, aiding your body’s ability to synthesize Testosterone.  You can find Zinc tablets in most drug stores.

Research into the effectiveness of zinc for hypogonadism is limited. But guided and appropriate supplementation may help raise your testosterone levels. One study researched the effects of a magnesium and zinc supplement. It found that men who received 30 milligrams of zinc per day showed increased levels of free testosterone in their bodies.

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Why it works:  Zinc is also a natural supplement for Erectile Dysfunction, and will support your efforts in showing her how much you appreciate her.  If you have noticed your erections are not as hard or thick as when you were younger, you may be a great candidate for Zinc.  You will feel rejuvenated in the bedroom in no time!

Increase Sleep

While supplementing Low T, without adequate sleep, your body will not have the means to build a better you.  Sleep is far from fluffy doctors’ advice.  When you sleep, Testosterone production peaks.  If you do not sleep, your body is unable to increase its production.  You should aim for at least 7 hours a night.  Some men may need upwards of 9 hours per night.  Sleep will also give you time to relax, and rebuild and repair.

Given the association between sleep and testosterone levels, it is no surprise that studies show that men affected by sleep apnea are more likely to have sexual problems such as low libido and erectile dysfunction, issues in which low testosterone levels may be a contributing factor.

This interaction between testosterone levels and sleep apnea can become a viscous cycle for some men. Low testosterone can lead to more sleep-quality issues. According to a study published in the Journal of Clinical Endocrinology, men with low testosterone have reduced sleep efficiency, increased nighttime awakenings, less REM sleep and more severe symptoms related to sleep apnea and other forms of sleep-disordered breathing.

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Why it works:  Sleep is nothing short of a wonder cure that you should be using every single day to look and feel your best.  Sleep facilitates many complex changes that are necessary to being a healthy and virile man, including hormone production.  Plus, people who sleep more are known to be more generous and satisfying lovers.

The best part is that it doesn’t matter if you are in a relationship or single, you can benefit from all of these techniques as they work together to promote a better, healthier life for you.  They may even help you attract the woman of your dreams when you least expect it!